the experience of the wedding ceremony

出国之前在一个城市本科硕士读过7年,在另一个城市又工作了3年。但是不管在哪,总觉得自己是飘着的过客,没有归属感。现在慢慢觉得,开始喜欢起现在这个地方。

D的婚礼也许触动了我的这种心态变化。看到那些客人很真诚的祝福他们的人生,看到他们婚礼的那种紧张、激动和甜蜜,就觉得很感动。这个地方让人更好的理解了什么是真正的民主。民主不是少数人服从多数人,而是多数人尊重少数人的选择和生活方式,保护少数人的权益。

I have studied in one city for 7 years and have worked in another city for 3 years in China. However, I always felt that I was a stray bird flying between universities. From now on, I start to show my affinity for this land and feel a connection between me and it.

I believe that D’s wedding contribute a lot to my change. The guests who attended the wedding ceremony were so nice and open-minded. They blessed the new couple sencerely and warmly. It is here and now that I understand the statement: “The democracy is not concerning that the minority have to follow the majority rule, but concerning that the majority respect and protect the life style, culture, beliefs and right of the minority.”

When I applied for the PR, I treated it as an extra credit card which I may use or may not. Now I treat it as the materials to build up my future.

PS: I have answered a lot of ZC’s questions about the visa issue for half an hour tonight. During the conversation, I behaved well and did not feel any emotion fluctuation. I am released finally and throughly. hoho

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